I Am "Superman"

Every man has these two options, to be either a "real man" or a "superman". The permanence of both of these men is optional, one guy can choose to stick with one option for good whilst the other can choose to be a real man today and a superman tomorrow. He can be a real man when he's home with his wife and kids, and be a superman when he's out with his friends.

A real man chooses to make the right choices, makes sacrifices for his family and puts their interests before his own. On the other hand, in this intstance of course, superman is an imaginary character that every guy has in his head to make him feel extraordinarily competent and superior.

A real man does so many things that this superman character could never do, but he's not appreciated daily for the significant roles that he plays in the family, unless it is a holiday dedicated to men (which are very few) or his birthday. This is because everyone that this man serves sees his efforts as merely his responsibilities, so there is not a need to award a man for doing what he is supposed to do.

Superman is out for happiness and self-actualization. When ladies look at guys in their supermans' modes they just think that guys are complete idiots, but this idiotic behavior is because superman wants to live out of the ordinary, take on impossible challenges and achieve, be irresistible and turn everything that he touches into gold. This guy does not want to take on ordinary tasks like changing the light bulb, fixing the garden, painting the house or any other duty that any other ordinary guy can do. He wants to do the impossible, because as stupid as it may sound every guy thinks that he is the only superman in this world.

A real man does his best to make his woman happy, but subconsciously he believes that it takes a superman to make a woman happy. Every man is scared of losing his woman, and he believes the day he looses her it will be a superman. So now the funny thing is, without him even noticing, this fear of his contradicts that he believes he is the only superman in the world.

This whole superman fantasy is built upon an insecurity that he thinks he's not completely capable of taking care of his woman. It is every guy's dream to be their woman's first choice. If your partner had an option to choose from all the men in the world, do you honestly think that she would choose you? And another reason superman exists is because almost every guy replies with an negative answer to this question. Be realistic, she wouldn't have a reason to choose you over all of these admirable characters (that you probably admire too) in the world that have "supemans" bigger and stronger than yours.

It is then a woman's duty to make her man to feel secure with himself, to make feel like a superman.

Good girls bring out the best in real men, but bad girls usually bring out the superman in a real man, and that is why in most cases guys cheat with woman who are completely incompetent as compared to their wives.

To keep your man you need to be a good girl (that he fell for), but be able to play dirty so that moments of intimacy (amongst other thing) can feel like extraordinary challenges for him that he will have to use his extraordinary capabilities to overcome.

And as my words of closure, to all the ladies who are with humble and responsible men, do not be fooled into thinking that he does not have this superman delusion in his head. He might choose to ignore it but does not mean that every time when he is by himself there is no voice in his head saying: "I am Superman.

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