Wednesday 15 August 2012

Listen To Your Own Voice

This world is very diverse; it is a network of much dynamic energy that conflict with itself. The motion of the world is driven by the love, hatred, peace and war of this world, so this means that the world is not moving at a constant pace or the same direction.
Most people believe that their instincts never let them down because they know exactly which direction to take in this diverse network built out of confusions. We all have an internal voice that only exist for us but unfortunately not all of us get to hear it. If you spend most of your time listening to the voices of other people you end up neglecting yours.
For some people it is almost impossible to differentiate between their own voices and those of others (even to them) because if you digest too many of other peoples’ opinions they end up feeling like they are of your own, and these are usually the voices that tell you that are not that important, nobody will love you, you need to quit before you make a fool out of yourself, etc. These voices are not of your own, if you can look deep into your heart and you will not tell me that you seriously believe that you were born to be a failure, maybe it is just that you have been hearing it for way too long.
In order to identify and develop a relationship with your own voice you need to undergo this 3-step process outlined below:

1. Develop an identity.
You have to answer this question: Who am I? From the very minute we are born we are ‘someones’ but the problem is discovering them. You need to know all of your characteristics, your strengths and weaknesses, and all of your qualities that make you worthy as a person. This step is a foundation of your confidence.

2. Believe.
Strong belief systems always empower your identity as a person, and your good qualities always make to believe in yourself. Believing in yourself take you to a whole new level for and improves you beyond imaginable limits. To get anything done in this world you need to have faith, not only in what you are doing but in yourself as well.

3. Appreciate.
When other people love, respect and believe in us we usually think that it is because they do not know the real us, because we do not believe that the ‘real us’ are worthy of love and respect. We develop this type of negative thinking because we lack appreciation for the good qualities we have. You need to accept yourself as who you are and respect it, and then see yourself and all that is around you with a positive eye of confidence.

These 3 steps will help you to know, believe in and appreciate yourself, and they will also make you to respect not only yourself but also everyone and everything that is around you, both living and non-living. They’ll also shut down all of the negative voices that lead to fears and insecurities because you’ll only hear positive voices that build you and empower you to reach your destination in life, and then you’ll clearly hear the most important one of them all, your own voice.

4 comments:

  1. Thanx for the love, i humble myself before the Lord and everyone who will read this.

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  2. thank u 4 da food of thot Prospa.

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  3. Alicia Keys once said. "If we want to be ourselves, we need to get negative people off our lives, as much as you would find out the most closest people to you are those negative people, but you just have to for your own sake"

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  4. as weird as this may sound but I always tell people that the only time one's time to reflect on themselves is in the lavatory. You can go to bed with somebody or even take a bath or shower with someone, which hardly gives you time to evaluate who and what you are. But once you go for nature's call and have to spend 5minutes or more being trully by yourself, those thoughts you get are the real you and never take them for granted..and that's your OWN VOICE.

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Thanx for the love